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OkStupid #3: Just when you thought it couldn’t get any worse

OkCupid has brought a good number of kickass people into my life, despite the overwhelming percentage of horrible messages that come my way. Online dating can be very frustrating, and I know that writing a great first message is not easy – I’ve sent quite a few of my own, which haven’t always been answered. Even though no one likes to […]

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OkStupid #2: More shit from OkCupid, because there will always be more shit from OkCupid

It’s been over a year since I first published a collection of awful OkCupid messages! How have things progressed since then? Well… my inbox is constantly at max capacity with 97% awful messages despite my periodic message deletion sprees. So I’ve got that going for me, which is nice. Also, the messages have gotten a lot worse […]

Aerie's Room: Taking the word "foreplay" out of my vocabulary

Taking the word “foreplay” out of my vocabulary

“Foreplay” is a term I don’t use anymore. It wasn’t particularly a conscious decision; the word just faded away from my lexicon over time. I became acutely aware of this fact while having conversations with a couple people I’d met on OkCupid, when their use of the word suddenly snagged my attention. To my ears, […]

Aerie's Room Naked on the Internet

Naked on the internet

Awesome photo credit: Epiphora Most people put on clothes to do their jobs. But in my new line of work, I specialize in taking them off. I was always vaguely aware that live webcam sex work existed on the internet, but three years ago when I discovered Unique Passion’s camming advice YouTube videos, I started to seriously consider […]

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