About Aerie


Hello! I am Aerie, a 31 year old geeky queer cat enthusiast & lover of all things weird. I write all content for Aerie’s Room – my blog where I talk about sexuality, sex toys, cam modeling, board games, queerness, nerdiness, dating and relationships, and whatever random things pop into my weird brain.

For a living, I do live sex camming and freelance graphic design. For fun, I love collecting and playing modern hobby board games.

I am genderqueer (my gender identity is a mysterious fluctuating orb of confusion to everyone including myself) and my pronouns are the non-binary, gender-neutral “they/them”. I’m multiracial (half-Japanese), and the ISFP personality type.

I am pansexual and polyamorous: I am attracted to (and can fall in love with) people regardless of their gender identity, and I have committed consensually non-monogamous relationships with multiple people at the same time. My girlfriend is the incredibly smart, radiant, beautiful, and snarktastic sex toy reviewer Epiphora. My primary partner is a sweet boy who lives in Wales (a very long distance relationship!) and is a total nerd (sooo my type) with a deliciously dirty mind and sexy British accent. I am also dating another total cutie, who prefers his coffee without creamer (weirdo) and is wonderfully creative and talented.

I like sandwiches, geocaching, handmade items, color swatches, chipmusic, strange indie video games, warm blankets, rainy days, pancakes, making out for hours, and Coconut Chai Rooibos Tea Lattes.

I used to live in the San Francisco Bay Area, but I now live in Portland, OR – and I couldn’t be happier with my life at this moment.

Photo credit: Screencap from Epiphora’s Princessa video review

Questions? Thoughts? Tweet me @aeriesroom or send me email via aeriesroom [at] gmail [dot] com

  • Gamefreakgeekgirl

    I am pretty sure that you are my spirit animal.

  • Love and respect from one sex blogger/geek/gamer to another 🙂